Would I be right in thinking that when you were growing up, you were told that putting yourself first is selfish? Me too! So you learnt to do as you were told, in order to get approval – the idea of disapproval when you were a young child, especially from your parents or primary carers, […]
How to Take Charge of Yourself
Have you ever woken up feeling yucky – fuzzy-headed perhaps, low energy and no motivation? Want to just pull the duvet over your head and go back to sleep – and perhaps you even do that? Or maybe later on in the day, you experience a slump? Yes of course, we all have. Since your […]
Vanessa Struts Her Stuff!
I’m really excited to be competing in Summer Business Come Dancing, a ‘Strictly’- style event where 11 intrepid business people train with professional dancers to compete at a gala event on the 24 June. It’s in aid of two worthy charities – Parkinsons Dance and Lewis Manning Hospice. Dance is a wonderful way of expressing […]
Relax, Listen and Learn
Time to kick back for a few minutes and listen to this 6 minute interview with Alan Coote of Let’s Talk Business. For a free report on How to Charge What You’re Worth and Get It, subscribe to my email updates using the form to the right.
The Value of True Worth
Within half an hour of sending out a broadcast to my list, I received a phone call from one of my subscribers based in London. He asked me to urgently send him 2 copies of my book for a couple of his mentees. He was happy to pay me over the odds and direct into […]
Calling All Control Freaks!
The title of this article appeared in my mind on Christmas Eve, although the subject had been swirling round my head for quite some time. In fact, a couple of weeks before Christmas I remember laughing and saying out loud – you’re such a control freak! There was no judgement – only realisation. It […]
The 5 Secrets to Charging What You’re Worth
If you’re reading this article, it’s almost certain that you recognise that you’re not charging what you’re worth. Maybe you don’t really know your value or perhaps you’re too modest or possibly you’re just not able to get your client to understand the value you provide. Let me reassure you that, whatever your problem, it […]
The Imaginary Monster – Fear
“If you listen to your fears, you will die never knowing what a great person you might have been.” Robert H Schuller. Up until now, fear has been the bane of my life, stopping me from doing all sorts of things. Fear, it is said, is the killer of dreams. I’m not talking about fear […]
All Rejection is Self-Rejection
No-one can make you feel inferior, without your consent. And so said Eleanor Roosevelt and she was right. This quotation came to mind as a result of personal shifts which I’ve been experiencing recently. I’ve gained a deeper understanding of what rejection is really all about and have come to the conclusion that no matter […]
The Five Steps to Self-Mastery and True Worth (Don’t Feed the Snake!)
Let’s get straight to the point. Do you want to be master (or mistress?) of your own destiny? If the answer is a resounding yes, then please read on. Are you aware that you talk to yourself? I don’t mean out loud, although some of us do do that (me being one of them), I […]